Make pudding according to bam instructions and place in fridge to set.
In a large bowl combine cream cheese, vanilla extract, and sweetened condensed milk until smooth.
Add pudding and beat until smooth.
Crumble 1/2 package of cookies in a deep dish 9 x 13 pan, reserving 3 cookies for top.
Add 1/2 of pudding mixture and smooth out.
Slice 3 bananas and add to pudding.
Repeat above process for a 2nd layer.
Top with cool whip and smooth out evenly.
Place 1 cookie in center as decoration and crumble other 2 on top.
Place in fridge and allow to chill. Enjoy!